“Maturity begins when we’re content to feel we’re right about something, without feeling the necessity to prove someone else is wrong.”

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“You don’t have to accept things you are not okay with.”

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be kind to yourself. remember that your journey is your own. don’t punish yourself for not having accomplished as much as x person at age 16, 17, 25, 40– their journey is not yours. your journey is not theirs. just because they are “doing more” than you are at this moment in time, or at that moment in time, does not mean you have wasted your time. you have had different experiences, circumstances, and opportunities. it is not a matter of fault on your part. you will get there, day by day, no matter how long it takes. 

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“I don’t get it. I just don’t get why someone can leave a person who they claimed was their ‘true love’, their ‘everything’, their ‘world’ like they never meant anything to them just for another person they hardly know. Do you not fucking understand how much i have been through for you? I was the one that dealt with your bullshit not her, got that? I was the one that was there for you when nobody else was not her, got that? It was always me, she was never there for you. So now that you’ve chosen her over me I hope you regret it. I was your world, huh? ‘I can’t live without you’ my ass. How the fuck are you alive then right now? It seems like it’s the other way around because whilst your living your life perfectly with your new girl, im the one struggling to breath, im the one with the broken heart and clearly i won the ‘I love you more’ fights. And I am so bloody ashamed to say this but I miss you and I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you.”

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“You don’t always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens.”

“Someone who wants the best for you is what’s best for you.”

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Isn’t it weird how we basically have an endless mental conversation with ourselves?

“Learn from your mistakes, work hard, and don’t let other people’s opinion of you become your limitation.”

How to Get Over Past Mistakes

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1. Remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes, does things wrongs, and has moments of regret. There are no perfect people out there. In that sense, you are just the same as everybody else.
2. Remind yourself that “that was then, and this is now”. You can’t turn back the clocks and change what you did, but you can be a different person in the future.
3. Allow yourself to experience and name the feelings you are struggling with (regret, guilt, shame, disappointment, embarrassment, sadness, etc.) – then make the decision to let those feelings go. In the end, it’s unhealthy to become attached to them.
4. Ask yourself what you can learn from the situation. What would you do differently if you found yourself in that situation again? How can it change the person you are now (so that you feel better about yourself)?
5. Recognise that failings are mistakes are part of the growth process. It’s inevitable that you’ll encounter obstacles, challenges and failures throughout life. Don’t let that stop you from really living life.
6. Remind yourself that “it was what you did, it’s not who you are.” Don’t allow any single event or experience to define you. You are more than – so don’t let that become your identity, or your destiny.
7. Give yourself the gift of a new day and a new start. Forgive yourself, let go of the past, and with confidence move on with your life.

“I’ve survived a lot of things, and I’ll probably survive this.”